You may in your own mind may think that what you say is not what you really mean, but you cannot expect the outsider to be able to decipher this unless you’ve known them for a long time. Tis why I take my time in making up my mind about people. There constantly are extenuating circumstances, though quite often of the time we live in a society that moves by a certain set of rules, it’s always important to realize that what people actually say isn’t necessarily what they always mean.
But that doesn’t give you the excuse to just act about the way you feel. Keep in mind how others may react in what you say or do.
I don’t know why this thought suddenly gave me the urge to write about it. It’s common sense when you think about it but you’d be surprised at how many people actually follow it.